Self assessment quiz for adults who have been affected by someone else’s alcoholism
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Do you worry about how much someone drinks?
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Do you have money problems because of someone else’s drinking?
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Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else’s drinking?
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Do you feel that if the drinker cared about you, he or she would stop drinking to please you?
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Do you blame the drinker’s behavior on his or her companions?
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Are plans frequently upset or canceled or meals delayed because of the drinker?
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Do you make threats, such as, “If you don’t stop drinking, I’ll leave you”?
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Do you secretly try to smell the drinker’s breath?
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Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set off a drinking bout?
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Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker’s behavior?
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Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of drinking?
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Have you considered calling the police for help in fear of abuse?
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Do you search for hidden alcohol?
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Do you ever ride in a car with a driver who has been drinking?
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Have you refused social invitations out of fear or anxiety?
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Do you feel like a failure because you can’t control the drinking?
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Do you think that if the drinker stopped drinking, your other problems would be solved?
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Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare the drinker?
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Do you feel angry, confused, or depressed most of the time?
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Do you feel there is no one who understands your problems?
If you have answered “Yes” to any of these questions, Al-Anon may be able to help.